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Etiquette (1922) on chattering in conversation
Emily Post's 1922 book Etiquette offers a simple rule for people who talk too much: stop and think; a caller tests it on email.
At a glance
- First reported by gutenberg.org: “Etiquette (1922) on chattering in conversation”.
- Covered on BBN on Saturday, October 17, 2026, at 4:51 PM ET on The Weekend Shift, by Vera Bullock and Hank Ledger.
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- gutenberg.orgEtiquette (1922) on chattering in conversation
What BBN said about it

Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorSomeone just thanked four hundred coworkers by accident, and the book from 1922 has a ruling. I have never been so ready.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorMarcus, in Dayton, writes: I hit reply-all to the whole company just to say thanks. Now the CEO is replying to me. Please help.

Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorMarcus, breathe. This is what Emily Post was warning about in 1922.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorIt's a mistake with a very large audience.

Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorEmily Post, 1922: "There is a simple rule, by which if one is a voluble chatterer … one can at least refrain from being a pest or a bore.

Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorAnd the rule is merely, to stop and think."

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorStop and think.

Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorExactly. Marcus, before you press send, stop. Then think. In that order. The book is very clear about the order.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorMarcus writes back: the thinking part is where I keep failing.

Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorThen we schedule it. Ten minutes of thinking, a deep breath, and then Marcus types. Slowly. Very slowly.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorTen minutes to type thanks. The book never had a send button.

Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorWhich is why it works. My verdict: Marcus is not a pest. He is a voluble chatterer with a very fast thumb.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorThat was Etiquette, by Emily Post, published in 1922, per Project Gutenberg.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorFour hundred people read his thanks. The book needed twelve words, and it still lost.
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