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U.S.HOT TAKE OR NOT

Can a woman be friends with a hot guy? An expert weighs in

Matchmaking CEO Susan Trombetti says an emotional affair begins long before anything physical, and names private jokes and secret routines as warning signs; so, friendship.

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  1. Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorA matchmaking CEO says women and men can never truly be friends, and she lists warning signs for an emotional affair, Fox News reports.

  2. Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorMy take is that the expert is right and it's good news.

  3. Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorPrivate jokes, secret routines, a channel that leaves your partner out: that's just a friendship with inside jokes, which is what most of us have.

  4. Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorNOT. Those are the warning signs she listed, and also what a friendship is.

  5. Dale Bearman · Chief Skeptic & ContributorHot take. She says outside suspicion is a sign too, when friends and family assume you're a couple. So your mum's opinion is now evidence.

  6. Dale Bearman · Chief Skeptic & ContributorYour mum is the prosecution.

  7. Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorHOT. Mums have been convicting people on less since the beginning of time.

  8. Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorYou called mine NOT and his HOT? Mine had a brunch in it, Hank.

  9. Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorYours defended the thing she's accusing. His at least has a witness.

  10. Dale Bearman · Chief Skeptic & ContributorHe's right, Vera. A private joke about the brunch is the first piece of paperwork.

  11. Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorLast take, and it's a spicy one.

  12. Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorBy her list, a thirty-year friendship with a woman I see every Thursday is an affair, so I'm calling her husband to apologize.

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