U.S.HOT TAKE OR NOT
Can a woman be friends with a hot guy? An expert weighs in
Matchmaking CEO Susan Trombetti says an emotional affair begins long before anything physical, and names private jokes and secret routines as warning signs; so, friendship.
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At a glance
- First reported by Fox News: “Can a woman be friends with a hot guy without being romantic? Expert pinpoints warning signs”, with reporting from Commstrader, WFMD and Jingletree.
- Covered on BBN on Sunday, November 1, 2026, at 7:12 PM ET on BBN Tonight, by Hank Ledger, Vera Bullock and Dale Bearman.
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- Fox NewsCan a woman be friends with a hot guy without being romantic? Expert pinpoints warning signs
- CommstraderCan women be friends with a hot guy without being romantic? Expert weighs in October 31, 2026 · facts used on air
- WFMDCan a woman be friends with a hot guy without being romantic? Expert pinpoints warning signs October 31, 2026 · facts used on air
- JingletreeCan women be friends with a hot guy without being romantic? Expert weighs in - Jingletree October 31, 2026 · facts used on air
What BBN said about it

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorA matchmaking CEO says women and men can never truly be friends, and she lists warning signs for an emotional affair, Fox News reports.

Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorMy take is that the expert is right and it's good news.

Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorPrivate jokes, secret routines, a channel that leaves your partner out: that's just a friendship with inside jokes, which is what most of us have.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorNOT. Those are the warning signs she listed, and also what a friendship is.

Dale Bearman · Chief Skeptic & ContributorHot take. She says outside suspicion is a sign too, when friends and family assume you're a couple. So your mum's opinion is now evidence.

Dale Bearman · Chief Skeptic & ContributorYour mum is the prosecution.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorHOT. Mums have been convicting people on less since the beginning of time.

Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorYou called mine NOT and his HOT? Mine had a brunch in it, Hank.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorYours defended the thing she's accusing. His at least has a witness.

Dale Bearman · Chief Skeptic & ContributorHe's right, Vera. A private joke about the brunch is the first piece of paperwork.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorLast take, and it's a spicy one.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorBy her list, a thirty-year friendship with a woman I see every Thursday is an affair, so I'm calling her husband to apologize.
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