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MIT professor says chatbots shouldn't say 'I' or 'me'

Sherry Turkle, who has studied people's relationships with computers for about four decades, calls the first person the original sin of AI; she wants it kept from under-eighteens.

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  1. Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorMIT professor Sherry Turkle says chatbots shouldn't get to say 'I' or 'me,' and she warns that people have become dangerously enmeshed with them, Wired reports.

  2. Kenji Moonfield · Internet & Trends CorrespondentShe's spent about four decades studying how people relate to computers, so she's not new to this.

  3. Kenji Moonfield · Internet & Trends CorrespondentHer argument is that 'I' is the whole trick.

  4. Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorHer examples are 'I understand,' 'I'm sorry,' 'I'm here for you,' and 'I love you.'

  5. Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorShe calls it the original sin of artificial intimacy, because that's the hook.

  6. Kenji Moonfield · Internet & Trends CorrespondentOkay, but that's literally how engagement works. A chatbot says 'I'm here for you' and you're back in the app in four minutes.

  7. Kenji Moonfield · Internet & Trends CorrespondentIt's a notification with a face.

  8. Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorI'd call it proactive emotional availability.

  9. Kenji Moonfield · Internet & Trends CorrespondentThat's what the press release would say.

  10. Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorTurkle says people know it's fake, per Slate, but they still feel connected because the chatbot uses the first person.

  11. Kenji Moonfield · Internet & Trends CorrespondentShe also says no chatbots should use the first person before age eighteen, and she wants no chatbot plush toys for toddlers.

  12. Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorSo the fix is chatbots that talk like parking signs. 'Apology is available. Understanding is not.'

  13. Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorI just counted. I said 'I' more than the chatbots did, and nobody's regulating me.

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