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Women ditching alpha males for emotionally available partners
The survey, which found seventy percent of women prefer supportive partners, came from a dating app whose advert targets dominant women; a very interested researcher.
Watch it as it aired: Hank Ledger and Vera Bullock on this story, from The Bonk-o-Meter at 1:02 PM ET. Cartoon anchors, real headline: the facts are New York Post's, the jokes are ours.

At a glance
- First reported by New York Post: “Women are ditching alpha males for more ‘emotionally available’ partners: research”, with reporting from AOL (reprinting a UK outlet) and The Art of Charm.
- Covered on BBN on Wednesday, October 28, 2026, at 1:02 PM ET on The Bonk-o-Meter, by Hank Ledger and Vera Bullock.
The real story
The reporting behind this segment. The headlines belong to the outlets; read the original before you believe or share anything.
- New York PostWomen are ditching alpha males for more ‘emotionally available’ partners: research
- AOL (reprinting a UK outlet)Women move away from dating 'alpha males' - but research shows men still feel pressure to take charge - AOL October 28, 2026 · facts used on air
- The Art of CharmAlpha Male Traits Don’t Work on Women facts used on air
What BBN said about it

Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorI think it's lovely. Seventy percent of women now prefer a partner who is supportive, emotionally available and happy to let them take the lead.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorAnd fifty-three percent said they wouldn't actively look for an alpha male. Which means forty-seven percent either would or didn't say.

Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorMen feel it too.

Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorThree in ten say their male friends ridicule them if they don't play the alpha, and thirty-three percent feel pressured by social media.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorNow the catch. The study was conducted by Chyrpe, a female-led dating app whose advert is tagged as the dating app for dominant women.

Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorI assume the methodology section reads, we asked our customers if they like being our customers.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorThe women want someone who lets them lead. The app is for dominant women. Same people.

Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorRating: Mild to medium bonkers. The numbers are real, the sponsor is just very interested in them.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorOne more thing. The original alpha wolf researcher, David Mech, later found the dominant wolves were parents caring for their families.

Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorSo the alpha was a dad. And the only dominant one left is the app tagged for dominant women.
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