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Etiquette (1922) on bores in conversation

Emily Post's 1922 etiquette book defines a bore as someone who insists you share an enthusiasm you don't have; the definition travels well.

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  1. Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorEmily Post, 1922: a bore might more accurately be described as one who is interested in what does not interest you, and insists that you share his enthusiasm, in spite of your disinclination.

  2. Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorSo the book already knew about the group chat.

  3. Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorDana, your brother-in-law is a bore. Legally. Historically. The charts are his insistence, and your phone is your disinclination.

  4. Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorDana writes back: So what do I do?

  5. Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorReply with one word, warmly. Noted. Never a question, never an emoji, never the word interesting. Interest is how they get you.

  6. Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorThat's cruel.

  7. Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorIt's boundaries, Hank. Same reason I stopped hearing about your collection of vintage answering machines. The point stands.

  8. Hank Ledger · Lead AnchorThe advice comes from Etiquette, by Emily Post, nineteen twenty-two, per Project Gutenberg. By its definition, you've texted me about your podcast eleven times.

  9. Vera Bullock · Co-AnchorNoted.

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